This is actually learned as a child, but forgotten as soon as the ego wishes.
Patience towards others is a virtue. But towards oneself, it is golden. If in any event I would be driven to act, or expected to act in a certain way; if I am patient instead of reacting to that first instinctual defense or attack method, sense and reason are given the opportunity to prevail.
One's own extreme reactions to events and life itself are a sign of how much you have copied your emotional foundations from others
Patience towards others is a virtue. But towards oneself, it is golden. If in any event I would be driven to act, or expected to act in a certain way; if I am patient instead of reacting to that first instinctual defense or attack method, sense and reason are given the opportunity to prevail.
One's own extreme reactions to events and life itself are a sign of how much you have copied your emotional foundations from others